SO some of you saw Mya's most recent phase that was dragging her laundry basket around the house collecting great treasures ya know like, socks, balls, sticks, magnets things like that. Well now she has a purse and let me tell you, this purse does not leave her site. She has to sleep with it, eat with it, get her diaper changed with it, take it to the store and doctors with her. She is so funny. SHe goes around acting like it is as big as the laundry basket with putting things into it. SHe crams as much as can go in and more. These are what she hold most valuable in thsi purse of hers. The other day she tried to put her lepord matching print shoe's in the purse and they just didn't quite fit. She deoesn't like it when things don't fit. Today I was cleaning the kitchen and I heard her beating her doll (yes my child now throws trantrums, not your typical throw themselves on the ground kicking and screaming, but if she is mad at whatever she takes it out on the object. Which sadly to say lately has been her new doll. Several times a day I find her screaming at the baby "NO...NO....NO" and she is kicking it and slapping it and throwing it against the wall. I tell her we can't do that to things, exp baby doll, exp the new real baby that will be here soon. SHe is worrying me with this anger thing she has. Back to my story I walk into her room and she was slapping her doll telling it no and I could see she was mad cause it would not fit in the purse. Than she turns on me and throws the baby and the purse at me to have me put it in there. NOT GONNA HAPPEN PEOPLE. I worked miracles with the shoes squeezing in there, but the baby, it ain't going to happen. She was once again not happy with mom. THank goodness I can out run her in fear of her beatings on things. Oh and don't worry I know your all thinking, "does another one of her rock out outfits come with that purse", leave it to Grandma Cindy to find these accessories. You know there is a whole lepord print sparkle outfit with high heals, rings, braclets and microphone to go with that purse. Will be posting pictures on the next dress up day!
I joke of this but really I am so worried about her fits. I know they all go through it but the anger on the poor objects worry me. MOst toddlers it seems will drop something or not get something the very first time and they just try it again or pick it up. NOT Mya if she drops her baby, or trips or puts a magnet on the fridge backwords so it just falls, she starts beating unmercifully on the object screaming NO at it. She gets frustrated and irritated so easily. I worry, I really do. I cont tell her we don't beat things like that and if she needs help come ask me, don't freak out on the object. Obviously she is not getting what I am telling her. I hope she doesn't need anger managment classes by age 5. Anyone out there have advice? Did anyones child at age of 18 months get frustrated so fast after messing up once and beat the objects dearly? I don't know how to get her out of this, to learn to ask for help or to try it again without getting so mad! My child really is a sweet thing, she sounds violent with this post I know, but really she is a sweetie with some frustrations problems!
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